I understand it but I cannot stand it. Why does everyone ask how I feel? I lost a small human so far how do you think I feel. I know it sounds trivial but needed to vent. I absolutely love telling people I feel worse not than before and I cannot gain weight back. I hear crickets.... It could be worse they could tell you haven't changed a bit from school. (while everyone else from school has "filled out") Meaning you have always been fat! Love My Life!
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脂肪: 46.06克 | 蛋白质: 108.51克 | 碳水物: 231.13克.
早餐: Peanut Butter, Caramel Rice Cakes, Marathon Protein Bar. 午餐: wrap, ragu , Classic Melts Four Cheese Shredded, Fat Free Ricotta Cheese, Turkey Pepperoni. 晚餐: hot dog roll, hebrew national, fat free borden. 小食/其他: Clif Bar - Chocolate Chip, Marathon Energy Bar - Multi Grain Crunch. 更多的......
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So tell me how you really feel:) Vent away. People say the most silly things. What gets me is the oh wow you have lost weight, you really look great. Well hell I thought I looked great before so how did I look bad before or what. It is funny that people just don't know what to say sometimes.
2011年04月5日 会员:: windrider
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My favorite is when people tell me that they are proud of me for making a goal and sticking with it. What the hell! As if I have not completed numerous goals, or maybe they don't think that matters as long as you're fat! Glad you vented; it gave me a chance to vent, as well!! :)
2011年04月5日 会员:: 1tarheelfan
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I love the comment..."have you lost weight" No I just got bigger clothes. I am going to keep going until I loose a moderate sized human.
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Yeah well...as a guy at least you don't have to deal with the "oh, you have such a pretty face" comment I used to hear a lot. Though I'm sure there's probably a male equivalent. The phrase "I'm proud of you" is something I tell my kids, not grown-ups, so it sounds weird when people say it to me. Funny thread here. I know we all know people mean well. When I get "how do you feel" I take that to mean the other person has noticed a change in my level of confidence because that has definitely improved. Just remind yourself that's what they're commenting on. :)
2011年04月6日 会员:: kstubblefield
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Man I hate the 'pretty face' 'pretty eyes' thing... it's basically code for 'too bad your ass is so fat.'
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Vent away, friend! We all need to and this is the best place for it cause there are a lot of us that are right there with you. I had someone tell me recently during a conversation, "...don't get me wrong, you're a beautiful woman, you just need to loose the weight." and my daughter had a complete stranger walk up to her and say, "You're really cute, it's a shame you're fat." I mean, really!! What makes people think it's OK to be cruel to someone just because they are overweight? DUH!
2011年04月6日 会员:: SkeeterJean
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I hear the, "So how do you feel now that you've lost all that weight?" Very often. What I am supposed to say? "GREAT!... now that I know you all like me better!"
Honestly I didn't really feel that bad to begin with. Now though, I feel absolutely rushed throughout the day. If you look at my exercise diary, on average I think I get maybe 2-3 hours of rest - which translates into helping kids with homework every night or cooking meals. I'm constantly up, getting kids ready for school, making meals, cleaning house, working a full time job, exercising at home or walking around the ball fields during practice, homework, showers, and then sleep.
Thank God for sleep. I don't have to move and when I wake up I can start eating again. LOL
2011年04月7日 会员:: Baccalynnwv
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