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Snowwhite100的日记, 2023年11月15日

Twice yesterday, before I had a chance to eat anything (I fast 16/8) my husband said to me: "You eat too much". At first, I thought: he doesn't want to pay for my food. Now I think I just don't measure up to all the young girls he "watches" for hours on the computer. Even if I go back to 104 like 2 years ago I won't look any different without clothes. I can't turn back the clock and I can't exercise enough (with my back) to make myself look any better. I feel so stupid for listening to him or letting my feelings get hurt.
57.6 公斤 最近减少: 0 公斤.    还有: 6.4 公斤.    饮食准则: 低.
一星期增加0.3 公斤

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Wow, yes, I think anyone would be hurt by that comment.  
2023年11月16日 会员:: 3dox
I don't like that. Does it make a difference if you tell him that his words are hurtful?  
2023年11月16日 会员:: JC_suburbangothcatmom
Of course your feelings are hurt! That is an insensitive comment to make but again, sadly I’m not surprised by his behavior. I pray for you to have some peace in your life and hope that you get enough support here to help you feel better about yourself! 💜💜🙏💜🙏 
2023年11月16日 会员:: Diana 1234
Ms. Snow I am sending you positive vibes to create self-love armor so those hateful comments bounce off of you with no damage. You don't need validation from anyone, To quote my friends on here....nobody loves you like you do. Don't let him win by allowing him to steal your joy. 
2023年11月16日 会员:: debrafrederick
Snow, your worth can not be measured by an insensitive, unfeeling person. Hard as it is, try to ignore him. None of us look like we did in our 20's. The goal should be to look the best we can at that moment....even if we weigh more than we'd like.  
2023年11月16日 会员:: SherryeB
Ignore him. 
2023年11月16日 会员:: sk.17
You are beautiful just the way you are ❤️ 
2023年11月16日 会员:: rcguenth
You have already explained his irrational behavior and thought processes. And that you cannot reason with him most of the time. So this is just more of the same and dare I say it, the devil in him trying to provoke you. Time to say nothing, get out of the house and do something that brings you joy and peace. 
2023年11月16日 会员:: RhumbaGirl
You know Snow, he's the one with the problem, not you. Well, except that you live with the hateful old grouch. When I encounter mean, angry people like him, I always think how awful it must be to be that person, to live life always angry and unhappy and hateful. You are beautiful just as you are, inside and out, and nothing he can say to you can ever change that. 💚💜💛 
2023年11月16日 会员:: shirfleur 1
He sounds like an idiot!💗  
2023年11月16日 会员:: collpeanut13
honestly, it sounds like he's being abusive.  
2023年11月16日 会员:: corinneturner
He is abusive Coll & Corinne, both physically and emotionally.  
2023年11月16日 会员:: shirfleur 1
No way babes. Dump the dead weight and choose happiness. You deserve so much better. 
2023年11月16日 会员:: AuntSinge
He needs a tune-up himself. Like a frontal lobotomy or some sensitivity training.  
2023年11月16日 会员:: -MorticiaAddams
Aw snow White I live in England, I wish I could pack u up and fetch u here to live with me and my family, ud never have to do anything, ud never be cold n hungry and ud be loved sooooo much. Reading ur posts have made me cry, sending lots of love to u xx  
2023年11月16日 会员:: heatherboardman
YOU have to lose weight for YOU. Stay focused on YOUR goals. Don’t fret about what others (including your spouse) say. I weigh 125 lbs. Ten more pounds to go. My husband prefers me at 130. I know what I want to look like. I’m 69 years old & yes wrinkled. He still loves me though. STAY FOCUSED 
2023年11月16日 会员:: cschofield54
Snow-white, I'm sorry for my first comment. I went back and read your other posts. I'm sending you love, because you don't need advice since you have made some kind of peace with the hell you're dealing with, and turning to God for support. I wish I could fix it for you. So for now, just virtual hugs. 😔 
2023年11月16日 会员:: JC_suburbangothcatmom
put Mr. rude on the same rations you eat. Stopped mine. 
2023年11月16日 会员:: Chewing Jello
❤❤❤ 
2023年11月16日 会员:: ejeanmard
Don’t ever let anyone make you feel less than you are! You are beautiful just the way God made you! If your partner is making you feel this way it doesn’t like he is the right guy for you. 🙏🏻 
2023年11月16日 会员:: Cassie907

     
 

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