It might help you go to marriage counceling. If your husband won't go, go by yourself. Only you can do something about your unhappiness. Eating won't make you feel better. Taking steps to deal with what is going on in your marriage will. It will empower you to take control. If it doesn't work out, you will find the strength to go on. You deserve to have a full, rich life filled with joy. Good luck, I know it's not easy.